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Sunday, 23 June 2013

10 Common Time Management Mistakes:Avoiding Common Pitfalls

How well do you manage your time? If you're like many people, your answer may not be completely positive!
Perhaps you feel overloaded, and you often have to work late to hit your deadlines. Or maybe your days seem to go from one crisis to another, and this is stressful and demoralizing.

Many of us know that we could be managing our time more effectively; but it can be difficult to identify the mistakes that we're making, and to know how we could improve.
When we do manage our time well, however, we're exceptionally productive at work, and our stress levels drop. We can devote time to the interesting, high-reward projects that can make a real difference to a career. In short, we're happier!
In this article, we're looking at ten of the most common time management mistakes, as well as identifying strategies and tips that you can use to overcome them. These ten mistakes are:

Mistake #1. Failing to Keep a To-Do List

Do you ever have that nagging feeling that you've forgotten to do an important piece of work? If so, you probably don't use a To-Do List to keep on top of things. (Or, if you do, you might not be using it effectively!)
The trick with using To-Do Lists effectively lies in prioritizing the tasks on your list. Many people use an A - F coding system (A for high priority items, F for very low priorities). Alternatively, you can simplify this by using A through D, or by using numbers.
If you have large projects on your list, then, unless you're careful, the entries for these can be vague and ineffective. For instance, you may have written down "Start on budget proposal." But what does this entail? The lack of specifics here might cause you to procrastinate, or miss key steps. So make sure that you break large tasks or projects down into specific, actionable steps - then you won't overlook something important.
You can also use Action Programs to manage your work when you have many large projects happening at once. (Action Programs are "industrial strength" versions of To-Do Lists.)

Mistake #2. Not Setting Personal Goals

Do you know where you'd like to be in six months? What about this time next year, or even 10 years from now? If not, it's time to set some personal goals!
Personal goal setting is essential to managing your time well, because goals give you a destination and vision to work toward. When you know where you want to go, you can manage your priorities, time, and resources to get there. Goals also help you decide what's worth spending your time on, and what's just a distraction.
To learn how to set SMART, effective goals, read up on Locke's Goal Setting Theory. Here, you'll learn how to set clearly defined goals that will keep you motivated.
You might also enjoy our Book Insight into "Long Fuse, Big Bang" by Eric Haseltine. This book teaches you how to focus on your long-term goals without overlooking your short term priorities.

Mistake #3. Not Prioritizing

Your assistant has just walked in with a crisis that she needs you to deal with right now, but you're in the middle of brainstorming ideas for a new client. You're sure that you've almost come up with a brilliant idea for their marketing campaign, but now you risk losing the thread of your thinking because of this "emergency."
Sometimes, it's hard to know how to prioritize, especially when you're facing a flood of seemingly-urgent tasks. However, it's essential to learn how to prioritize tasks effectively if you want to manage your time better.
One tool that will help you prioritize effectively is the Urgent/Important Matrix. This helps you understand the difference between urgent activities, and important activities. You'll also learn how to overcome the tendency to focus on the urgent.
The Action Priority Matrix is another useful tool, which will help you determine if a task is high-yield and high-priority, or low-value, "fill in" work. You'll manage your time much better during the day if you know the difference.
You might also want to go through our Bite-Sized Training Class, How to Prioritize, to further enhance your skills.

Mistake #4. Failing to Manage Distractions

Do you know that some of us can lose as much as two hours a day to distractions? Think how much you could get done if you had that time back!
Whether they come from emails, IM chats, colleagues in a crisis, or phone calls from clients, distractions prevent us from achieving flow, which is the satisfying and seemingly effortless work that we do when we're 100 percent engaged in a task.
If you want to gain control of your day and do your best work, it's vital to know how to minimize distractions and manage interruptions effectively. For instance, turn off your IM chat when you need to focus, and let people know if they're distracting you too often. You should also learn how to improve your concentration, even when you're faced with distractions.
Additionally, our article on managing email effectively teaches you how to gain control of your email, so that it doesn't eat up your entire day.

Mistake #5. Procrastination

Procrastination occurs when you put off tasks that you should be focusing on right now. When you procrastinate, you feel guilty that you haven't started; you come to dread doing the task; and, eventually, everything catches up with you when you fail to complete the work on time.
Start by taking our Procrastination Quiz to find out if procrastination is a problem in your life. If it is, then learn the strategies you need to beat procrastination.
For instance, one useful strategy is to tell yourself that you're only going to start on a project for ten minutes. Often, procrastinators feel that they have to complete a task from start to finish, and this high expectation makes them feel overwhelmed and anxious. Instead, focus on devoting a small amount of time to starting. That's all!
You might also find it helpful to use Action Plans. These help you break large projects down into manageable steps, so that it's easy to see everything that you need to get done, and so that you can complete small chunks at a time. Doing this can stop you from feeling overwhelmed at the start of a new project.

Tip:
Our Bite-Sized Training session, Overcoming Procrastination, gives you more in-depth strategies and tips for dealing with procrastination.

Mistake #6. Taking on too Much

Are you a person who has a hard time saying "no" to people? If so, you probably have far too many projects and commitments on your plate. This can lead to poor performance, stress, and low morale.
Or, you might be a micromanager: someone who insists on controlling or doing all of the work themselves, because they can't trust anyone else to do it correctly. (This can be a problem for everyone - not just managers!)
Either way, taking on too much is a poor use of your time, and it can get you a reputation for producing rushed, sloppy work.
To stop this, learn the subtle art of saying "yes" to the person, but "no" to the task. This skill helps you assert yourself, while still maintaining good feelings within the group. If the other person starts leaning on you to say "yes" to their request, learn how to think on your feet, and stay cool under pressure.

Mistake #7. Thriving on "Busy"

Some people get a rush from being busy. The narrowly-met deadlines, the endless emails, the piles of files needing attention on the desk, the frantic race to the meeting... What an adrenaline buzz!
The problem is that an "addiction to busyness" rarely means that you're effective, and it can lead to stress.
Instead, try to slow down, and learn to manage your time better.


Tip:
"Do More Great Work", by Michael Bungay Stanier, is full of ideas and tips to reduce the "busywork" that you're doing, so that you're more excited and engaged in the work that matters. Click here for our Book Insight on it.

Mistake #8. Multitasking

To get on top of her workload, Linda regularly writes emails while she chats on the phone to her clients. However, while Linda thinks that this is a good use of her time, the truth is that it can take 20-40 percent more time to finish a list of jobs when you multitask, compared with completing the same list of tasks in sequence. The result is also that she does both tasks poorly - her emails are full of errors, and her clients are frustrated by her lack of concentration.
So, the best thing is to forget about multitasking, and, instead, focus on one task at a time. That way, you'll produce higher quality work.
Our Expert Interview with Dave Crenshaw, looking at The Myth of Multitasking, will give you an enlightening look at multitasking, and will help you explore how you can manage simultaneous projects more effectively.

Mistake #9. Not Taking Breaks

It's nice to think that you can work for 8-10 hours straight, especially when you're working to a deadline. But it's impossible for anyone to focus and produce really high-quality work without giving their brains some time to rest and recharge.
So, don't dismiss breaks as "wasting time." They provide valuable down-time, which will enable you to think creatively and work effectively.
If it's hard for you to stop working, then schedule breaks for yourself, or set an alarm as a reminder. Go for a quick walk, grab a cup of coffee, or just sit and meditate at your desk. Try to take a five minute break every hour or two. And make sure that you give yourself ample time for lunch - you won't produce top quality work if you're hungry!

Mistake #10. Ineffectively Scheduling Tasks

Are you a morning person? Or do you find your energy picking up once the sun begins to set in the evening? All of us have different rhythms, that is, different times of day when we feel most productive and energetic.
You can make best use of your time by scheduling high-value work during your peak time, and low-energy work (like returning phone calls and checking email), during your "down" time. Our article, Is This a Morning Task? will teach you how to do this.

Key Points

One of the most effective ways of improving your productivity is to recognize and rectify time management mistakes.
When you take the time to overcome these mistakes, it will make a huge difference in your productivity - and you'll also be happier, and experience less stress!

PLEASE NOTE: This is not my original article,the original piece can be gotten from Mind Tools.com

Monday, 1 October 2012

HAPPY NEW MONTH



­­Another month is here again, and we are all very happy and joyous to be among those who see the new month. As a strong believer in the power of prayers, I invoke the prayers of blessings into the life of each and every reader of this blog. I tender each and every one of you before the throne of blessings of your creator, and I say may you never meet lack, or suffer want in this month in Jesus’ name. You may not believe in prayers, but I stand upon the word of faith in the God whom I serve to say that each and every one of you will never know lack, or suffer throughout the course of this month.
As you progress into OCTOBER, simply because it’s a month of Celebration and Freedom in Nigeria, may you be celebrated, liberated, and may you also celebrate with people this month in Jesus’ name, Amen. You may have felt that it’s going to be all over for you, either academically, physically, socially, and even in so many other areas I chose not to mention in this post, but I have good news for you; things are about to turn around for good for you from now on. As your eyes hovers over this post, up till this line, may you witness the divine turn around that the life of Senator Barack Obama of the U.S.A. witnessed, Dr. Goodluck Azikiwe Ebele Jonathan of Nigeria witnessed.
It’s a new month, and my earnest prayer for you would be that your life would begin to go up, up, up, and higher, higher, higher, until you can no longer bear and you request a pause. May you never be able to come down again from that topmost place you’ll be placed from this moment on in Jesus name, Amen.
Happy Independence to all my readers from Nigeria, and Happy New year to every reader around the world. Expect great things in the days ahead.

Wednesday, 26 September 2012

LOVE & CHANGE: How do they Relate ?



   Change is the only element that is constant on the face of the earth. Many a time, lot of people have asked this question; "Can’t I change my lover in
our relationship?" or "I want to date that guy because I love him, and want to change him for good, is that bad?" To enter a relationship for love is one
thing, to enter the same for the cause of change another; but when both love and change are in the fray, that's an entirely different ball game already.
   Love they say is unconditional, and I really don't doubt it.This means that love does not oppose any action or reaction from both the giver and
Recipient. It is given without any does and don’ts. When you claim to be in love with someone, and you still have it at the back of your mind to
correct a part of that person, either socially, behaviorally, or otherwise, then you have yourself conflicted on your course of action; or don’t know where
you are headed.
   The term 'CHANGE' only comes to being in love,when the propagator takes the other party just as they are originally,not pulling or pushing on
flaws,but rather,letting go of the hurts received from the after-effects of these flaws,and later pointing these flaws,little by little,one by one in hushed,
subdued and soothing tones,so as not to aggravate issues.
   These few tips should summarize my main points,including those not put down above.

* Love and change should not be moduled up into a single lesson; i.e they are not to be part of the priorites of entering a relationship.

* Learn to love,rather than change,and let the change come from you first.

* No single man is an island of perfection.Even the Messiahnic Jesus Christ was not perfect alone,except he brought both God the Father,and the Holy
Spirit into the fray.

* Perfection is not a one time arrival.You get there through gradual processing and lessons that must be learnt.

* When trying to correct someone to change, especially your partner or spouse, know that the softer you go, the deeper you'll be able to penetrate.

* Never expose the weaknesses of your partner directly or indirectly to others. It’s your personal discovery, and you should be able to work out a definite
solution.

* Learn to forebear with whatever setback you may encounter while trying to help your partner [No true success has not had its own fair share of failures].

* Learn from the mistakes of others.[It's the surest way to move faster to your preferred destination in record time.]

*Be the best you can be, not a Mr./Miss Perfect, but the best you are, and with time you'll see a very tremendous and enchanting change evolving in your
partner.

* You must cultivate the virtues of tolerance and patience.Without these,fights would break out between you at the slightest provocation.

* Whatever the time frame it takes,know that love conquers all doubts,flaws,fears,and everything else.[But that's when the LOVE is TRUE].

Thursday, 6 September 2012

FEAR


   I sometimes wonder why people are always scared of either doing the right things at the right times, or taking the right step at the appropriate time. I have come across a lot of people in this life who have gone on to become celebrities in life, and most of them attest to the fact that they used to be very bold and courageous before they became famous, but once fame and popularity set in, they suddenly lost their utmost sense of security. I tried to do a background check on the possible causes of this awful nuisance called FEAR.
   Fear, an acronym for “False Evidence Appearing Real”, has been defined by a wide range of sources both online and offline.  Encarta Dictionaries defines it as:
 Feeling of anxiety: an unpleasant feeling of anxiety or apprehension caused by the presence or anticipation of danger
Microsoft® Encarta® 2009. © 1993-2008 Microsoft Corporation. All rights reserved.
While fear encapsulates its victim in such a way that everything it brings their way seems to be authentic. Moving back to my celeb friends, I got to know that over 80% of present day celebs are either into drugs, or into heavy alcohol ingestion. It may seem awkward and unbelievable, but they give their paramount excuse as the fact that it instills in them the courage they need to go about their daily lives as celebrities. Even out of remaining 20%, another 5% are just into these life terminating commodities, but only minorly.
   Given the flimsy excuses above by these widely celebrated personalities, I’ll simply site a real life example of an international celebrity who despite his world fame has deteriorated in health and well-being, simply because of drugs and alcohol. For those of you who have watched the wonderful child epic movie, HOME ALONE, remember that smart kid in the first and second parts of the movie? His name was Michael McCulkin. Very recently, he was charged to court for excessive use of alcohol, and heavy use of drugs like nicotine, marijuana, hemp, to mention but a few.
   If you ever watched the film then, or even now, and you compare and contrast the very disgusting difference in him between his childhood and his youthful years at just 31 years of age, you’ll shake your heads in total disgust, and begin to wonder how he got himself into the whole mess. I did a little research on the internet about him, and found out that he was diagnosed to be suffering from depression; a major effect of FEAR.
   My main point from this short story is: never let FEAR catch up with you, no matter your status or position in life. When next I’ll be talking about FEAR, I’ll be analyzing the other effects of fear, and how to generally overcome it.

©2012 Adesina David

SKY



Like a huge blanket laid on a king size bed,
The sky hangs massively over the earth.
No one knows where it starts,
Neither do we know to where it’s ends are.
So bright, yet gets dark at night,
So thick, yet lets automobiles pass through it.

No one has ever known how old the sky is,
But I dare say it’s just as old as the earth is.
But with its age, it looks so ever fresh,
And never lack its shine or its grace.
Whether in the sunshine or in the rain,
The beauty of the sky is still the same.

Ever heard of a truly pregnant cloud?
It always gives birth first to the rain.
But you never know that the rain is not all it bears,
Because after the rain comes another of its children,
The ever beautiful rainbow, showing off the true beauty of the sky.
So when you hear of the rainbow, and the rain,
Always remember that they are children of the sky.

Never would the world remain the same,
If the sky decides to go on a short leave.
The sun would dwell amongst us on earth,
And scotch us all to our very deaths.
The rains would also go with its mother sky,
And we would all wail with so many questions of WHY’s.

It is possible for the sky to be called pregnant,
And the next day, you hear it called cloudless, barren sky.
It could at the moment look golden, when the sun comes visiting,
And the next moment turn dark, when night gives it a call.
But no matter who is dwelling with the sky,
It does not ever lose its fascinating beauty for a second.

The rain speaks of the sky’s burden and heaviness,
The sun speaks of its bright side, and its industrious nature.
The night time darkness speaks of the sky in a deep sleep,
With the occasional visit of the stars and moon,
Showing the state and manner with which it sleeps.
The rainbow is the only favorite the sky has,
Telling us so much of the relief from burdens, of the sky.

Adesina David
©2012

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